What is it called when you sleep with the enemy? fraternizing with the enemy? what about when you go on rendezvous with the enemy.it is not fraternizing still, is it? here I am with an archenemy and it is past half an hour, we still have not clawed our eyes out yet i am still waiting for the change in attitude or the glistening of a knife emerging from the back pocket.
The human species are the most unpredictable, complicated beings ever, we get angry for no reason, hate without care or abandon, beef each other till the end of the world just because we got served ice cream and we would rather have soda or coffee instead? i am that kinda person and i am admitting my flaws now, I am working on being a better me, i have hated, I have beefed but where has it gotten me? i have a crease on my forehead and that is all i have to show for it, i have stop making excuses for my wrongdoings and accept responsibility for what have done and what i ought to do but would not do, I have set out on the journey to develop me and i know there are still people like me out there who still play the blame game, cowering away from responsibility and commitments, trust me it is not worth it, life is much more fun when you start standing up for what you believe in, when you stop shying away from what you have done, admitting it would make you a better person for you would not want to go back, you would want to work on your mistakes and working on mistakes make you grow! let us go on the journey of self-discovery together, trust me none of all that boring motivational speaker session that makes you doze off, neither is it any of those admonishing remarks that reminds you of momma, it would be fun, exciting, scintillating and oh it may get emotional.
What are the things you would love to change about yourself, I would love to hear from you.

13 thoughts on “A FRENEMY ENCOUNTER

  1. Yusuf Shu'ayb May 5, 2016 at 4:25 pm

    Wish i could stop caring..

  2. damilola May 5, 2016 at 4:59 pm

    just exactly what am going through…

  3. olaitan taiwo May 5, 2016 at 5:16 pm

    This is awesome.

  4. T.piano May 5, 2016 at 7:26 pm

    Want to change my lifestyle seems I am too nice

  5. Oniyide Jesugbemi May 5, 2016 at 9:17 pm

    Abt myself…lemme think…still thinking…finally anger.

  6. silk May 5, 2016 at 10:59 pm

    Want stop being shy.

  7. Tejmahal May 6, 2016 at 6:03 am

    I just got blown away by you Missy… There’s a lot to change about myself but first I just wanna know “who I am”

  8. Tejmahal May 6, 2016 at 6:05 am

    I know the feeling,… But they just ain’t worth the change,… Be you bruh

  9. Medudiva May 6, 2016 at 7:15 am


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  11. kanzahadmin May 9, 2016 at 6:28 pm

    It takes time but you will eventually build your self confidence if you work towards it. Have fun

  12. Mohamard Harbyb May 14, 2016 at 10:51 pm

    I want to stop being too shy and nice…people take it for weakness..and i think its true,am getting too weak,i like to satisfy everyone which is a known xteristic of the weak

  13. kanzahadmin May 15, 2016 at 8:55 am

    That is nice, all the best.

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