SUNDAY MOTIVATION: STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF

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Hey you! Yes you, you with the sad look plastered permanently on your face, you, I mean you and you that looks out for the misery in his/her life every day, Hey! Hi! Hello! When are you going to stop counting your loses so you can go fun yourself?
Hey! Hope you know sitting all day doing nothing except looking back to what could have been but didn’t would only get you stucked in one place forever?
Hey! Hope you know wasting your precious time and energy feeling hurt and pain from what you should have let go won’t make you feel better? Hope you know moaning and groaning to everyone who cares enough to listen won’t solve your problems? Most times people to only lend you a listening ear to gloat about your miseries later.
Hey! Hope you know complaining about things won’t change anything? Everybody started somewhere, you just can’t tap your fingers and get to where you want to be, and you can’t expect everything to happen when you want them to, whatever happened to patience? All those complaints and murmurings shows how much of an ingrate you are, hello do you know some people would kill or do anything to be where you are? Don’t scoff, it is true, that very position you detest so much, that very job you think of a curse, hope you know some are willing to give an arm or spread a leg for it?
Hey! Hope you know pushing your spouse around and silently regretting the day you met them won’t make them better spouses? You rather gently and lovingly point out their flaws and urge them towards being a better person, do you know the flaws in your spouse may not be flaws? It might be you expecting too much from that and No! No one has it all, no one is perfect, remember what made you love them in the first place and always lookout for that when you feel they are not good enough.
Hey! Hope you know regretting your existence won’t make thunder strike you down? Oh oh, sounds funny but it is not, there is a reason why you are alive, there is a reason why you were molded in the first place, you are a treasure, pure treasure, perhaps you could try soul searching to know your purpose in life, don’t just live, just living would make you feel “sorrier” than you already do, go FUN yourself you could FIND yourself in the process.
Have a lovely week-end!
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