Do you know those girls that look calm on the outside but are actually at war with their selves on the inside? They can so play with their feelings and your feelings and even steer you in the wrong direction and you wouldn’t be able to do anything except to look on and try to comprehend what just happened in the last four, five minutes, months, years? You’d think they have a thing for you when actually you are just a quick cereal taken before the real meal gets ready.
Uhm so as I was saying, as we have the f#ck boy term for guys who act like losers, love playing girls around, hate commitments, total cotton candy heads , so do we have it for girls too but I don’t know what it is called and uhn uhn it is definitely not sl#t, thank you very much. Let’s just call them the I AM NOT THAT INTO YOU kinda girls.
They are so confused, and always have to ask people to tell them what they want, M has kept F around for several months now and she still wouldn’t say no or yes whenever he brings up the issue of dating, she doesn’t know whether she should stay single and form the singlegirlrocks crew with her single friends or join the Bae bus, like seriously?
She keeps evading and evading but ends every conversation with sweet nothings, makes appearances in public with him, visits his parents house with him every Saturday and smiles shyly when she get called wifey but gives it to him when they are out of earshot, talking nonstop for thirty minutes .
She is not that into you but gets jealous and accuses you of cheating on her when she sees texts you exchange with other girls on your phone? She would cry for days and threatens to kill herself,seriously girl I thought there were no strings attached?
I really don’t get the idea of leaving boys hanging around in the backyard, at the park, near the window, on the cloth line, on your WhatsApp, in the Mall, while you survey from afar still undecided whether you should go for it or nah, seriously girl? You need a thorough sit down session at Dr. I FIX YOUR LIFE IN THIRTY MINUTES office to know what you want, if you want to be independent and run your own thing just do it, if you need to depend on Bae when the times are hard then get Baed, no shoulders would be available from we your single friends because we would be so mad you left us, and so? Who cares? it is your life, you chose that part so just accept the responsibilities involved and stop making excuses. Remember there is NO there is YES and there is MAYBE… Weak people use that.
What are your thoughts on this piece? Are there other characteristics of the I AM NOT JUST THAT INTO YOU GIRL you know? #xoxo